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Looking for cute blazers you can slay effortlessly and to rock this fall season, ASOS is your friend. They are cute and very pocket friendly.

Amazingly, we are in the last quarter of the year. How time flies! 

I hope that you stay encouraged in the remaining months of 2021. Do not fuss about what you have not 

accomplished. Rather than fussing or complaining, please revisit that idea or plan and run with it again. 

One thing I have come to realize in this life is that "it's not always about you". 

There so many peoples live attached to that your idea, business project, and so on. If you don't do it now, many people might suffer. 

 

 

 

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                                                                 ABIVAHFASHION

 

Hi loves,

I am sharing with you this ankara ruched skirt that I made. I was able to make this skirt after watching a 

youtube video on how to make it. I watched it a couple time and I got it. They say practice makes perfect 

which is true. But I've also found that adding knowledge unto knowledge is key. After practicing 

something and you have perfected it, dnt stop there, add more to your knowledge. Keep learning, it never 

stops!

Hello Family, It was my birthday yesterday and I had an amazing time spending it with my family.

 

Hey lovers, its less than 48 hours until valentine. Are you excited?  I am excited about it because I get to spend it with my hubby and Princess. I am more excited because this year my Hubby wants to celebrate valentine. Over the years while we courted, he wasn't really a fan of it, and we probably only had 1 valentine together because of the distance.

I heard you were thinking of last minutes things to do for valentine, so I am here to help you out.

1) SIP & PAINT- this is a fun thing to do at home with your lover or significant other. Enjoy the time with a drink in one hand and paint brush in the other. Amazon has some pre drawn canvas you can order and have it delivered with prime. Dollar Tree is another place to shop for canvas, paint,and brush. They have a section in their store dedicated for that.

2) NETFLIX & CHILL- with valentine at the door, there are some new videos up on netflix and other channels like Hulu, Tubi, Pluto, etc. Watch a movie of your choice with your partner. My suggestion is to go for a romantic movie 😉. Make sure to have plenty snack in hand and at sight before you go on the night adventure. So, cuddle up under the blanket and enjoy!

3) GAME ON: If you both are a lover of games, this is going to be fun for you. Gather all the games you can and make sure to have a prize for the winner, this would make it more interesting and competitive for you. Dnt forget the drinks and snacks too.

4) COOK DINNER TOGETHER: this will give you a great bonding time. A special home made meal can be very romantic. You dnt have to be the best chef, just enjoy the moment and try out that new or old recipe together.

hope you all have a nice valentine's day! 

 I heard it is going to snow in baltimore this weekend, so this why I named it White Valentine.

                        Comment below how you will be spending time with your loved ones.

 I told you I made 4 outfits just in time before I delivered. This is 2 of 4 that I made.

One of my girls had her wedding last December and this was how we turned up for her and her groom. I made this outfit a day before the event. Thanks to my super amazing husband who stayed up late with me just to make sure I finished it. 

At 38 weeks pregnancy, I didn't have that much energy, so I just made a plain off shoulder dress. My hubby didn't want me to be plain. LOL, he wanted his Queen to sparkle, so more than staying up late, he went out of his way to buy the feathers and hand stitched them on the dress to look just like this. Oh! how I love you man. 

I had my face shield on the whole time at the event, I only took it off when I had to take pictures or eat.

 

A Happy new year to youuuuuuuuu people. 2021 is the year we all have waited for and I absolutely trust God that is going to be a great year. Amen!!!

 Hello loves,

Yes, I did miss you too. I know its been a min on the blog, but I am glad to be back and continue.

Today, I am looking at gift ideas for Men. We celebrated our one year anniversary on the 15th and it was a time to look for gifts for him.  However, my hubby had mentioned he wanted a PS 4, so that's what I got for him. I saw the need to create a gift list next time to help shop for partners who don't have a specific thing they want. Most times when you ask a man what you should buy for him, their response is always anything! 

Our men deserve some spoiling too, so dnt wait until hat special event before you buy them gifts.

I have complied a list of things to get from my two favorite stores for hubby. They are items right for the season as well. Do check them out. 

I hope this list helps you select good gifts for him too.

Enjoy!

THNAKS FOR VIEWING

XOXO

ABIVAHFASHION 

We kept our relationship away from friends. No one in school could have absolutely guessed right that oluwole and I were dating. We just never always talked in the classroom except for closing hours when we sometimes take the same bus home, but he was always chatting with his friends in the bus, and so did I.

 One day at school, I met with oluwole and a classmate to tell them about my older brother's drama group. I invited them to come for the auditioning which they agreed to.  Let's fast track to when oluwole got accepted into the drama group and he started attending rehearsals which was in our house. Dude was so faithful and committed, every time he came, it was an avenue to see him and talk. Let me quickly add that he always came for rehearsals at least an hour early and he was always the last to leave. lol Truly, I think this was what bonded our love💗
Time came for us to write JAMB (an exam you needed to pass in order to gain admission into university). We both wrote the exam but I didn't meet the cut off point, so I was home for a year. On the other hand, Oluwole passed the exam and he started pedigree at EKSU (Ekiti State University), that was the first phase of our long distance relationship! He visited each time he had a break at school.
The following school year, I gained admission at a different school. Oluwole and I didn't get to see that often because we had break in school at different times. Two years after, I couldn't continue my education because my parents couldn't afford my tuition at that time, so I was home again.

Do you know the thought of God towards you are of good and peace? Before the year ended, my family got visa to travel abroad. Our heart was full of joy! On feb 4 , I was scheduled to travel abroad with my mum & brothers. Oluwole had slept in our house 2 days before because I informed him about it. We made promise not to leave each other no matter what. Honestly, I  didn't know how that was going to happen. Took me some weeks to settle down in the states and then finally called him to say Hello from the other side 😢The distance God was preparing us for earlier now finally set in. We stayed in touch via Facebook, but something happened on Facebook! 😶 I met a crush, sorry a crush found me. 😑
Fast forward to when Oluwole and I stopped talking and paused the relationship (seriously, I broke his heart). It was big lesson for me, but God's plan can't be destroyed. I cried onto the holyspirit for help and he took me through some stages until I got that peace which passeth human understanding. Oluwole and I reconnected and since then we have been like the breaking forth of waters.

Since 2015, I had traveled to nigeria once a year to spend time with him and did some personal stuff as well (Abivah Charity Foundation). In 2018, we experience a big disappointment. Oluwole was denied his visa to USA. His purpose of visiting was to attend my graduation ceremony.
Did I tell you God is ever faithful? The following year, we had a testimony over our previous disappointment. Even this testimony birthed our Marriage last year. I can boldly say that when God is in your boat, you can never sink.

This is a snapshot of our love story. Of course, other things happened that are not included in this story. I am glad to finally type this up. lol Sorry for keeping you waiting since. Love you too
   

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