ABIVAH

 I told you I made 4 outfits just in time before I delivered. This is 2 of 4 that I made.

One of my girls had her wedding last December and this was how we turned up for her and her groom. I made this outfit a day before the event. Thanks to my super amazing husband who stayed up late with me just to make sure I finished it. 

At 38 weeks pregnancy, I didn't have that much energy, so I just made a plain off shoulder dress. My hubby didn't want me to be plain. LOL, he wanted his Queen to sparkle, so more than staying up late, he went out of his way to buy the feathers and hand stitched them on the dress to look just like this. Oh! how I love you man. 

I had my face shield on the whole time at the event, I only took it off when I had to take pictures or eat.

 

A Happy new year to youuuuuuuuu people. 2021 is the year we all have waited for and I absolutely trust God that is going to be a great year. Amen!!!

 Hello loves,

Yes, I did miss you too. I know its been a min on the blog, but I am glad to be back and continue.

Today, I am looking at gift ideas for Men. We celebrated our one year anniversary on the 15th and it was a time to look for gifts for him.  However, my hubby had mentioned he wanted a PS 4, so that's what I got for him. I saw the need to create a gift list next time to help shop for partners who don't have a specific thing they want. Most times when you ask a man what you should buy for him, their response is always anything! 

Our men deserve some spoiling too, so dnt wait until hat special event before you buy them gifts.

I have complied a list of things to get from my two favorite stores for hubby. They are items right for the season as well. Do check them out. 

I hope this list helps you select good gifts for him too.

Enjoy!

THNAKS FOR VIEWING

XOXO

ABIVAHFASHION 

We kept our relationship away from friends. No one in school could have absolutely guessed right that oluwole and I were dating. We just never always talked in the classroom except for closing hours when we sometimes take the same bus home, but he was always chatting with his friends in the bus, and so did I.

 One day at school, I met with oluwole and a classmate to tell them about my older brother's drama group. I invited them to come for the auditioning which they agreed to.  Let's fast track to when oluwole got accepted into the drama group and he started attending rehearsals which was in our house. Dude was so faithful and committed, every time he came, it was an avenue to see him and talk. Let me quickly add that he always came for rehearsals at least an hour early and he was always the last to leave. lol Truly, I think this was what bonded our love💗
Time came for us to write JAMB (an exam you needed to pass in order to gain admission into university). We both wrote the exam but I didn't meet the cut off point, so I was home for a year. On the other hand, Oluwole passed the exam and he started pedigree at EKSU (Ekiti State University), that was the first phase of our long distance relationship! He visited each time he had a break at school.
The following school year, I gained admission at a different school. Oluwole and I didn't get to see that often because we had break in school at different times. Two years after, I couldn't continue my education because my parents couldn't afford my tuition at that time, so I was home again.

Do you know the thought of God towards you are of good and peace? Before the year ended, my family got visa to travel abroad. Our heart was full of joy! On feb 4 , I was scheduled to travel abroad with my mum & brothers. Oluwole had slept in our house 2 days before because I informed him about it. We made promise not to leave each other no matter what. Honestly, I  didn't know how that was going to happen. Took me some weeks to settle down in the states and then finally called him to say Hello from the other side 😢The distance God was preparing us for earlier now finally set in. We stayed in touch via Facebook, but something happened on Facebook! 😶 I met a crush, sorry a crush found me. 😑
Fast forward to when Oluwole and I stopped talking and paused the relationship (seriously, I broke his heart). It was big lesson for me, but God's plan can't be destroyed. I cried onto the holyspirit for help and he took me through some stages until I got that peace which passeth human understanding. Oluwole and I reconnected and since then we have been like the breaking forth of waters.

Since 2015, I had traveled to nigeria once a year to spend time with him and did some personal stuff as well (Abivah Charity Foundation). In 2018, we experience a big disappointment. Oluwole was denied his visa to USA. His purpose of visiting was to attend my graduation ceremony.
Did I tell you God is ever faithful? The following year, we had a testimony over our previous disappointment. Even this testimony birthed our Marriage last year. I can boldly say that when God is in your boat, you can never sink.

This is a snapshot of our love story. Of course, other things happened that are not included in this story. I am glad to finally type this up. lol Sorry for keeping you waiting since. Love you too
   

                                                           #theAkoredez

 Everyone created by God has a purpose to fulfill. What then is Purpose? It is the REASON for your existence! We were designed by God in such a way that we can only be fulfilled when we discover and get involved with his purpose for our lives.